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4,924 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 11 years ago by Energized

Have you ever had a friend with benefits?


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11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 3/24/11 - 5:12:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
Quite a few actually
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 3/24/11 - 5:13:54 PM EST (GMT-5)
HS, and my wife before she was my wife.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 3/24/11 - 5:23:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nope. Always liked the idea though......
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 2:28:28 AM EST (GMT-5)
No, and I don't want that kind of friendship.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 2:31:41 AM EST (GMT-5)
Not really. (kinda i guess?) I don't expect I'll have that situation. I'm not the kind of guy that girls who would do that would be interested in. Not hot or douchey enough for 'em.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 2:37:16 AM EST (GMT-5)
Currently. Dislike.

You have to choose the friend wisely, and theres a lot of variables that dont come to light until after its too late to turn back.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 5:29:58 AM EST (GMT-5)
Kind of...but the benefits were rather occasional. And she did have a boyfriend and we were all living in the same flat so it had to be somewhat discreet.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 5:43:56 AM EST (GMT-5)
Yeah, I have had a few in the past. My last one was Matt and that turned into a 3 year (and still going) relationship.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 1:37:36 PM EST (GMT-5)
in high school, but no need for that thing anymore because of my girlfriend.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 2:48:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
No and I dont know how anyone could. To have sex with no feelings seems kinda empty
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 3:05:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Friday 3/25/11 - 2:48:12 PM Girlgone wrote:
No and I dont know how anyone could. To have sex with no feelings seems kinda empty


If someone is your friend, chances are you care for them. Otherwise they wouldn't be your friend, would they?
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 3:18:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes but I think there is a big difference if you have sex with someone. That would be way beyond being friends. Maybe its different for girls, but I couldnt do it. It has too much meaning for me and not just fun and feels good.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 4:07:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
Three
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 3/25/11 - 5:26:46 PM EST (GMT-5)
no, nor would i ever
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Sunday 3/27/11 - 10:15:22 PM EST (GMT-5)
sure have. sex and love arent always directly related.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 3/28/11 - 12:10:05 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I never liked that idea...I don't think I'd be able to fool around with a woman and not fall in love with her...I'd have to be heartless and uncaring to make friends like that. Actually anyone would have to be uncaring and heartless to be like that...pricks.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 3/28/11 - 1:43:51 PM EST (GMT-5)
No. A friend of mine suggested that we start having that kind of relationship but I declined. It's funny because I had a conversation with him months before he suggested the idea and he said "Any friends with benefits I've had ended up with either me liking her a lot more than she liked me, or her liking me a lot more than I liked her. That's when it stops being fun."

That kind of turned me off the idea altogether. I have a feeling that I would have been the one that ended up liking him a lot more.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 3/28/11 - 5:00:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
I had a great friend with benefits about 8 years ago. We used to meet up a couple times a week for what we called our 'cinema for adult viewing & chicken' nights. It worked out really well until I started dating someone exclusively. It was a very sweet, easy going, emotionally productive relationship and we remained friends, just without the benefits, until his passing a couple years back.
R.I.P. Swiggs
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 3/28/11 - 5:44:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Monday 3/28/11 - 5:00:39 PM ozmachic wrote:
I had a great friend with benefits about 8 years ago. We used to meet up a couple times a week for what we called our 'cinema for adult viewing & chicken' nights. It worked out really well until I started dating someone exclusively. It was a very sweet, easy going, emotionally productive relationship and we remained friends, just without the benefits, until his passing a couple years back. R.I.P. Swiggs

Hit me up if you ever need a new one.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 3/28/11 - 7:36:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm old fashioned, I guess. Never have.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 3/29/11 - 8:29:15 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Monday 3/28/11 - 5:44:06 PM bgraham23 wrote:
Hit me up if you ever need a new one.


Very classy.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 3/29/11 - 12:29:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Monday 3/28/11 - 5:44:06 PM bgraham23 wrote:
Hit me up if you ever need a new one.
On Tuesday 3/29/11 - 8:29:15 AM ozmachic wrote:
Very classy.

I'm a classy kind of guy. My nickname in college was "Classy guy" even.
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 3/29/11 - 7:06:07 PM EST (GMT-5)
my ex did. needless to say shes no longer my girlfriend:/
11 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Wednesday 3/30/11 - 12:03:27 AM EST (GMT-5)
Once.

It was fun at the time, though!
11 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 4/3/11 - 12:09:02 AM EST (GMT-5)
Had one of those. We've been together 5 years now. One of my other friends, she had one too, they've been married for 12 years now.

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