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eternalita24
Female,
18-29
Eastern US
Joined: 13 yrs ago
118 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Saturday 5/23/09 - 8:54:28 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, its hot.
But, why doesnt he just go to the beach..Oh I see, what if its the wintertime..or just that he doesnt have the time..off work..or the distance to that beach
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Saturday 5/23/09 - 9:05:28 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, not at all.
There is no correct 'effeminate' or 'masculine' way for a man to obtain a tan - and whatever method enables him to look good and enjoy lots of sexual encounters, all the best to him.
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Leiaisluf
Female,
13-17
Eastern US
Joined: 13 yrs, 2 mos ago
815 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 5/24/09 - 12:16:09 AM EST (GMT-5)
Definitely not. But eh. I prefer my men pasty.
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vanilla19
Female,
18-29
Western US
Joined: 15 yrs, 6 mos ago
939 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 5/24/09 - 12:34:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
Yes...It's a form of personal grooming, like waxing your eyebrows or putting on makeup, so it is kind of feminine.
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WLS1
Male,
70+
Southern US
Joined: 14 yrs, 3 mos ago
39 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 5/24/09 - 1:31:28 AM EST (GMT-5)
Tans are absoulutley pointless, a waste of time and of money but, i wouldnt say effeminate
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Dicarinella
Female,
18-29
Europe
Joined: 13 yrs, 3 mos ago
465 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 5/24/09 - 5:27:35 AM EST (GMT-5)
I wouldn't say its effeminate, but its definitely very metrosexual. Also WLS1 is quite correct, tanning is a pointless waste of time and money.
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 5/24/09 - 9:45:58 AM EST (GMT-5)
Not effeminate, just stupid.
Go ahead and turn orange or red, you'll look ridiculous.
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bronzebabe
Female,
40-49
Southern US
Joined: 16 yrs, 4 mos ago
1,290 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Monday 5/25/09 - 6:43:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nahhhh...gotta get tan if you're a busy man...
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Xifihas
Male,
18-29
Europe
Joined: 14 yrs, 3 mos ago
1,120 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Wednesday 5/27/09 - 5:25:18 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's vain but it's not effeminate
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tooster22
Male,
18-29
Midwest US
Joined: 17 yrs, 2 mos ago
682 Posts
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Friday 5/29/09 - 3:09:26 AM EST (GMT-5)
I think it's a pretty faggoty thing to do.
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12 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Sunday 6/7/09 - 1:18:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think tanning beds are fine, but men who get spray tans (unless it's to be in a movie or something) are ridiculous.
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12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/11/09 - 5:02:45 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, but I wouldn't recommend it.
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12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/11/09 - 5:04:57 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 7/11/09 - 5:02:45 PM animalover wrote:
No, but I wouldn't recommend it. |
why not? |
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12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/11/09 - 5:22:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
I personally don't find tanned skin that attractive. I've seen some awful spray tans and then there are the health risks associated with tanning beds.
If you manage to achieve a natural-looking tan then good for you. I just think it isn't worth the bother.
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12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 1/2/10 - 5:50:40 AM EST (GMT-5)
tbh YES.
I like manly men.  |
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10 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 2/11/12 - 1:27:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
I don't really like tans on anyone. A lot of them look fake to me.
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pancakepie
Female,
13-17
Western US
Joined: 8 yrs ago
56 Posts
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8 yrs ago - Tuesday 5/6/14 - 2:29:14 AM EST (GMT-5)
no, let em do what they want. equal rights.
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11 months ago - Saturday 6/5/21 - 12:55:20 AM EST (GMT-5)
Yeah, I think caring how you look is more feminine than masculine.
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11 months ago - Saturday 6/5/21 - 1:37:58 AM EST (GMT-5)
Having a beard is not caring about your looks, right?
Like I’ve got minor neck beard going on.
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11 months ago - Saturday 6/5/21 - 1:57:31 AM EST (GMT-5)
Depends how long you spend grooming it.
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11 months ago - Saturday 6/5/21 - 1:59:26 AM EST (GMT-5)
Weekly/bi-weekly.
The neck weekly and trimmers or scissors every couple of weeks.
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bluedaisy11
Female,
18-29
Western US
Joined: 14 yrs, 10 mos ago
9,087 Posts
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11 months ago - Friday 6/18/21 - 3:09:01 PM EST (GMT-5)
I just look at anyone gets fake tans as someone focused on their appearance, whether due to their profession or personality or both.
I don't really like the concept of the stereotypes of feminine and masculine.
Its definitely a behavior related to self-grooming that women do more than men though.
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bluedaisy11
Female,
18-29
Western US
Joined: 14 yrs, 10 mos ago
9,087 Posts
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11 months ago - Friday 6/18/21 - 3:10:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 5/23/09 - 9:05:28 PM Killraven wrote:
No, not at all. There is no correct 'effeminate' or 'masculine' way for a man to obtain a tan - and whatever method enables him to look good and enjoy lots of sexual encounters, all the best to him. |
Oh no I've been doing it wrong, is that the life goal, lots of sexual encounters? |
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