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5,342 hits 2.0 (1 vote) Share Favorite | Flag 15 years ago by KikiPeepers

Do you think people who have had sex change operations have an obligation to tell any sexual partners what they used to be?


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15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/13/06 - 10:18:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
i would be so dratin pissed if i found out my husband was a woman before even after we'd been married for 50 years
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/13/06 - 10:18:32 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes they should because most people would not have sex with someone who did, and those who would keep that from their partner are conniving and disgusting. Withholding that kind of information and pursuing a sexual relationship is no different than rape as far as Im concerned.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/14/06 - 11:30:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
If they want the relationship to have a chance of working then yes.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/14/06 - 11:32:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
If you are witholding information from a person that you know would make them reconsider having sex with you and you have sex with them anyay, that's just despicable.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/16/06 - 9:08:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
okay number 1: people who get sex change operations shouldn't even be in relationships. why did they have to go through all that trouble just to date their same sex! hello? gays are becoming more and more welcomed in our society. number 2: yes. and number 3: honestly, i feel anyone in a relationship with one who has had a sex change would have some idea about it, seriously..
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/16/06 - 9:12:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/16/2006 9:08:24 PM awesome_ness wrote:
okay number 1: people who get sex change operations shouldn't even be in relationships. why did they have to go through all that trouble just to date their same sex! hello?

A person should never have a relationship with a person of either gender just because they're a transexual? The question doesn't specify genders at all.

You're a moron.. hello?

15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/16/06 - 9:19:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, they have no obligation to tell their partener what they used to be. If they want to, they can, but no-one has to know. Just like no-one has to know if say you got a boob job or botox before they met you.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/16/06 - 9:21:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/16/2006 9:12:23 PM unhailey wrote:
On 7/16/2006 9:08:24 PM awesome_ness wrote: okay number 1: people who get sex change operations shouldn't even be in relationships. why did they have to go through all that trouble just to date their same sex! hello? A person should never have a relationship with a person of either gender just because they're a transexual? The question doesn't specify genders at all. You're a moron.. hello?

you're right there unhailey but that's not very nice.

15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/16/06 - 9:21:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/16/2006 9:19:56 PM Ask_Annika wrote:
No, they have no obligation to tell their partener what they used to be. If they want to, they can, but no-one has to know. Just like no-one has to know if say you got a boob job or botox before they met you.

I don't think having a boob job or botox is a fair comparison to changing your gender..

15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/17/06 - 1:20:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
Sexual partner, no.
Serious relationship, yes.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/17/06 - 1:22:24 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, not unless they plan on making a lasting relationship with the person.
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/17/06 - 1:33:27 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/17/2006 1:20:09 PM abzurd wrote:
Sexual partner, no. Serious relationship, yes.

Agreed.

15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/22/06 - 4:59:55 PM EST (GMT-5)
DUH!
15 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/22/06 - 5:01:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/17/2006 1:20:09 PM abzurd wrote:
Sexual partner, no. Serious relationship, yes.

Why wouldn't you tell a sexual partner?

15 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 1:38:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes...I would want to know...
15 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Thursday 8/24/06 - 5:46:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would want to know, too.
15 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Thursday 8/24/06 - 5:50:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
Well, most people would end up telling their partners, but no.
It's not "used to be" - having the genitalia of a specific sex doesn't define your gender. If I had a sex change operation I would never tell anyone that I was born female-bodied, because I'd want to be considered 100% male. I *would* tell my long-term partners before we got too serious, but that's just me.
15 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Thursday 8/24/06 - 5:55:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
Some of these answers are sad. The only reason I'd have to tell my partner would be because I'd be afraid he would have such a bad reaction.
If you were transgendered and get surgery, you are that sex. Your gender is what you feel you are, not the sex you were born. What about transgendered people who haven't taken any steps to change their sex, but still date? Would you have to know about that before having sex with them?
15 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Thursday 8/24/06 - 6:34:54 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think that is creepy!!!!
15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 10/21/06 - 5:43:46 AM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/16/2006 9:08:24 PM awesome_ness wrote:
okay number 1: people who get sex change operations shouldn't even be in relationships. why did they have to go through all that trouble just to date their same sex! hello? gays are becoming more and more welcomed in our society.

Because they feel they are in the wrong body.

A gay person is a male who feels like a male who likes to make love with other males.

Or, a female who feels like a female who likes to make love with other females.

A transgendered person feels like a woman trapped in a male body, or a man trapped in a female body. They want the body they feel they should have been born into, and they want a *heterosexual* relationship when they are in that properly gendered new body.

15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 10/21/06 - 5:44:11 AM EST (GMT-5)
Should they tell - if they are in a long-term relationship, yes. Their gender history is part of who they are, and it's difficult to hide such a large part of who you were.

For a one-night-stand - no. Neither of you is making a long term commitment, so there is no need to tell.

15 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Thursday 11/2/06 - 7:14:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think they do. How could you let the person find out from someone else?
15 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Wednesday 11/29/06 - 8:12:05 PM EST (GMT-5)
I for one want to be told ahead of time so I can stop myself....cuz otherwise I would probably commit ritual suicide.
15 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Wednesday 11/29/06 - 8:16:04 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes, they should.
15 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Friday 1/5/07 - 4:15:33 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hell no, what's it matter?

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