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3,026 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 16 years ago by Bon

Do you think it is emotionally harder to call off an engagement or call off a marriage?


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16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:55:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
After you've been married to someone so long, you get attached. Then again, you could not love that person anymore. Either way about it, it's probably equal.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:56:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Unless there is children involved.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/18/05 - 3:59:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
If you're a woman in a romantic comedy, you can do either one in 5 minutes without feeling regrets.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 10:45:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd have to say an engagement. At that point, you're not yet sick of your partner
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 10:59:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, there's more of a commitment that you may feel guilty for breaking. By then you probably share alot of things and it can get complicated.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 11:23:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
Emotionally and engagement because of all the hype leading up to the acutal wedding. If I got to the point of filing for dovorce it would be emotionally over for me long before the papers were signed.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/21/05 - 11:49:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
Ahem, you don't just CALL OFF a marriage. It's WAY better to call of the engagement than to just divorce from a marriage. Marriage is a sacred bond.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 10:00:06 AM EST (GMT-5)
Engagement.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 11:51:06 AM EST (GMT-5)
a marriage is harder... unless its a reschedualing thing
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 12:42:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I have no idea. I think maybe a marriage.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/22/05 - 12:43:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would think a marriage, but I wouldn't know.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 12:43:39 AM EST (GMT-5)
I dont know..they'd both be really hard..
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 12:51:57 AM EST (GMT-5)
The marriage is an economic crisis as well as a love dump. That 5-foot ice swan is non-refundable, and you're a real a-hole if you return liquor. In my town you get shot on principle for that sort of thing.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 1:49:34 AM EST (GMT-5)
I hope to call off nether but Im sure the marrige would be much much harder.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 10:10:44 AM EST (GMT-5)
engagement...just because. i dont really know how to explain it. but usually when you get a divorce you really hate eachother.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 11:53:49 AM EST (GMT-5)
GOOD QUESTION! Bon, have you been there?? Calling off an engagement would be very hard to do. I wanted to do that for MOST of my engagement, and I didn't have the guts. I'm very glad I didn't, but at the time, I doubted my motives and wishes for my future almost from the second I got engaged. I couldn't bring myself to break her heart, though, and it turned out REALLY WELL. If I'd broken it off, I'd have hurt her even MORE than I suspected, and I'd have hurt myself even worse. If things go bad, though, and I have good reason to break the marriage (God forbid!!), that would be a lot easier to to. I could cop self-righteousness, at that point.
16 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/23/05 - 5:11:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, especially if you have children.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 7/31/05 - 6:04:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
Probobly a marriage.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 7/31/05 - 6:08:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would think it would be harder to end a marriage.

I just think theres a different, stronger type of emotional attatchment there after a marriage. Especially if the person was waiting until marriage to have sex.

16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 7:39:53 AM EST (GMT-5)
Both would be tough to get through.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 2:56:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
marriage I think... At that point there is more time together, and in my opinion usualy a stronger bond.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 7:50:38 PM EST (GMT-5)
Probably a marriage. In an engagement, at least you call it off early. For marriage, suffering with a person for years or months or days seems worst.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Wednesday 8/3/05 - 11:14:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage, definitely.
16 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Thursday 8/4/05 - 2:29:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
Marriage - there is usually more involved legally, emotionally, financially, and with kids, possibly...etc.

For an engagement - you could always run away the week of your wedding and make your loved ones believe that you have been kidnapped, then recant your story in a phone call when you realize what a dumbass you have been...:P

16 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Wednesday 11/30/05 - 7:31:45 AM EST (GMT-5)
Divorce. You have been through way much more.

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