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betsybird
Female,
18-29
Midwest US
Joined: 17 yrs, 3 mos ago
2,718 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 3/14/05 - 2:20:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
Well, if one partner is refusing the other one sex, then it's already not okay to begin with. If the one being refused sex then cheats, then I'd say that marriage is just about over.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 3/14/05 - 2:26:20 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's NEVER ok to cheat.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 3/14/05 - 2:27:54 PM EST (GMT-5)
of course not.
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Songseeker1
Female,
40-49
Western US
Joined: 17 yrs, 3 mos ago
4,128 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 3/14/05 - 2:28:13 PM EST (GMT-5)
Probably a better idea to get some counseling or call it quits, no?
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Monday 3/14/05 - 2:31:20 PM EST (GMT-5)
Does the marriage contract have a 'If no sex then it's OK to cheat' clause?
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 1:20:31 AM EST (GMT-5)
I think that if the other person is refusing them sex, then the other person should allow them to have sex with other people. I mean, obviously, you can't expect the other person to have sex with you every time you want to have sex, so there is obviously some degree of tolerance that has to go on. But if they just will not have sex with you at all and stuff like that, then they should agree to something else. |
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 11:19:41 AM EST (GMT-5)
That's fair. I think that a husband or wife, if (for whatever reason) would totally refuse to have sex with their partner, then they should know that they've opened the door for the other person to seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere.
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PORPOISE
Female,
18-29
Southern US
Joined: 18 yrs ago
12,973 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 11:20:27 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'm with Nightgoddess on this one.
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freedom8
Male,
18-29
Europe
Joined: 17 yrs, 3 mos ago
57 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 11:34:47 AM EST (GMT-5)
It is always out of line to cheat, no matter what, i feel that if 1 partner does loose interest in sex totally then they should look into the relationship and try to find out whats gone wrong as sex is a vital bonding mechanism between partners.
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100fires
Female,
18-29
Southern US
Joined: 17 yrs, 3 mos ago
337 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 12:01:35 PM EST (GMT-5)
Cheaters suck. If you aren't getting what you need then you need to sit down with your partner and figure out the problem. If that doesn't work then just leave.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 5:32:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's certainly more understandable. That doesn't make it RIGHT, but I can at least see where they're coming from.
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rissy13
Female,
18-29
Midwest US
Joined: 17 yrs, 4 mos ago
3,698 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 5:34:51 PM EST (GMT-5)
According to Mr. Ron "Tater Salad" White, it does. (If anyone has seen the Blue Collar Comedy Tour and know who this man is, he is FRICKIN' hilarious!!)
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 5:35:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
Last I checked, living up to your agreements is not dependant on what the other person does. I've agreed to love, honor, and cherish my wife, period. Doesn't matter what she does, I can only be responsible for my actions.
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rissy13
Female,
18-29
Midwest US
Joined: 17 yrs, 4 mos ago
3,698 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 5:35:33 PM EST (GMT-5)
But to answer the question, no! I think it is wrong.
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basslady
Female,
50-59
Southern US
Joined: 17 yrs, 2 mos ago
7 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 5:36:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
A couple that has a problem like this has a much bigger problem than sex. Sex is only a small part of a good relationship, I think. It is NEVER ok to cheat, in my book. it is a deal-breaker and unforgivable under any circumstances.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Friday 3/18/05 - 7:40:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
Cheating is wrong. Just do it openly and if that screws up the relationship then nothing is lost that mattered anyway.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 3/19/05 - 11:27:47 AM EST (GMT-5)
It is no okay, but it is more understandable. If a partner had sex with me and then began refusing to I'd probably break up with him.
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17 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Saturday 3/19/05 - 4:12:05 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes, unhailey, but we're not talking about a partner. We are talking about making a vow before God and man that you will always be faithful.
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 3/24/05 - 2:22:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
sounds like they don't have a very good marriage
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 3/31/05 - 9:27:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
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daydreaming
Female,
18-29
Eastern US
Joined: 18 yrs ago
18,297 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 3/31/05 - 9:27:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
It is never right to cheat on your spouse for any reason.
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jennashrn
Female,
18-29
Southern US
Joined: 17 yrs, 6 mos ago
3,674 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 3/31/05 - 9:27:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
no, if they're having problems they should just get divorced
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Tuesday 4/19/05 - 1:16:48 AM EST (GMT-5)
not if its just during her period or something... but wives who use sex as a tool to get what they want deserve to be cheated on. |
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Tuesday 4/19/05 - 1:57:41 AM EST (GMT-5)
The first step is counselling. If things don't change, the second step is divorce. The third step is finding a new partner. No cheating. There is more to a marrige than sex, but sex (and other displays of affection) is very important to a marriage. |
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ashley_2007
Female,
18-29
Southern US
Joined: 17 yrs, 2 mos ago
347 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Tuesday 4/19/05 - 12:36:20 PM EST (GMT-5)
There is no excuse for cheating.
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