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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 3:55:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I would rather have the cuddling.
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SomedaySoon
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Western US
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 3:56:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nah. Let's all spoon! (I might worry that it means I'm bad in the sack, though. Which I'm not. For the record.) |
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Choke
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60-69
S. America
Joined: 18 yrs, 1 mos ago
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 3:56:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
There's nothing wrong with cuddling and kissing, if they no longer found me attractive they wouldn't want to do anything.
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 4:00:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
"(I might worry that it means I'm bad in the sack, though. Which I'm not. For the record.)" Smooooooth. |
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Greenfairy84
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Eastern US
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 4:03:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
As much as i like cuddling and kissing,it might worry me,because usually all they want is sex sex sex.I might think they were gay.
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 4:06:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
it would really depend. i mean, kissing can go in many directions. Like, the "shpoofy spoodle sphumphkin sweety!" direction, or the "you are so beautiful..." direction, or the "let's have sex after this... direction. i know, i know, i'm a teenager, not an adult, and there are plenty of other factors. i'm just generalizing here. if, when they kissed me, it was always the first influence, i would definitely worry. But as long as i felt the other two, i would be okay. snuggling... i'm not even gonna go there. |
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 6:29:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd just tell them to shape up.
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 6:33:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
That's exactly what I'd be looking for.
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 6:33:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
No but I'd be worrying about what they thought of me physically anyway.
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blond_me66
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Canada
Joined: 18 yrs, 6 mos ago
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18 yrs ago - Thursday 7/22/04 - 6:41:35 PM EST (GMT-5)
No...
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 6:44:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
Nah, my current g/f is a cuddler, but she's a tomcat in the sack too.
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 6:46:34 AM EST (GMT-5)
Not at all. You can't judge your physical attractiveness from someone else's sex drive.
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:36:32 AM EST (GMT-5)
It wouldn't worry me at all. As camel says, I can't judge his feelings towards me according to his sex drive. Some people just aren't that into sex.
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:44:10 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'd worry about the future.
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willowfan7
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Europe
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:45:08 AM EST (GMT-5)
no way..I love snuggling, but that doesn't necessarily mean I don't find my partner attractive
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:46:36 AM EST (GMT-5)
It would worry me, yeah. Cuddling's fantastic but I'd want a sex life too.
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:48:05 AM EST (GMT-5)
Exactly, estella, sexual compatibility is important to most people in relationships. Without it, I would definitely have to rethink my willingness to be with someone.
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 7:56:50 AM EST (GMT-5)
But it doesn't say that they NEVER wanted sex. If they never wanted sex then I would worry.  |
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 8:00:42 AM EST (GMT-5)
yeah, i'd be worried
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18 yrs ago - Friday 7/23/04 - 8:02:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
Ah, true. But I think my sex drive is higher than many people's.
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thesweetone
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Eastern US
Joined: 18 yrs ago
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18 yrs ago - Tuesday 7/27/04 - 9:58:57 AM EST (GMT-5)
No way! I express my feelings and emotions through physical touch. And that doesn't always mean sex. Cuddling and kissing is very satisfying. That's not to say that sex is not.....
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Morguebabe
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18-29
Eastern US
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18 yrs ago - Tuesday 7/27/04 - 10:02:51 AM EST (GMT-5)
Not really.
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zach8270
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18-29
Eastern US
Joined: 18 yrs, 2 mos ago
812 Posts
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18 yrs ago - Tuesday 7/27/04 - 10:18:07 AM EST (GMT-5)
No. That stuff can be much more intimate and fulfilling.
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thesweetone
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30-39
Eastern US
Joined: 18 yrs ago
22 Posts
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18 yrs ago - Tuesday 7/27/04 - 10:20:38 AM EST (GMT-5)
No way! I express my feelings and emotions through physical touch. And that doesn't always mean sex. Cuddling and kissing is very satisfying. That's not to say that sex is not.....
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dontdoubtND
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18-29
Southern US
Joined: 17 yrs, 9 mos ago
125 Posts
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17 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/04 - 9:47:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
no because thats the way i am i could go without sex i think a relationship is about love and trust and thats really what should be working on. once you have sex well with my exs they get all crazy and poo i don't know an the relationship doesn't last much longer. plus i like to tease more....haha i'm bad. alex*
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