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2,624 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 18 years ago by Bon

If you saw someone flirting with your significant other and you were not even a little jealous, does that mean you don`t lust for your significant other?

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18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Wednesday 2/11/04 - 5:56:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
Maybe. Or, it could mean that my SO was ignoring the flirt because she was repulsive.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 2/12/04 - 5:50:32 AM EST (GMT-5)
I agree with khaki - when its so obviously just not going to work, its pretty funny.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 2/12/04 - 6:14:03 AM EST (GMT-5)
That's what I was going to say means the other guy is fugly, or a bottom.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 2/13/04 - 10:22:14 AM EST (GMT-5)
Just noticed the advert on top. . .

" As Seen On Oprah
Do You Really Know Your Partner? Ask 1000 Questions And Learn! aff. "

Men would really love that,

18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 2/13/04 - 10:24:31 AM EST (GMT-5)
I just find it amusing. Especially when I go up to them and snog his face off while the dirty little slapper watches in despair
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Friday 2/13/04 - 10:26:33 AM EST (GMT-5)
Yes. If someone was flirting with a good male friend of mine, I wouldn't feel jealousy, and that's because I love them as a friend but am not attracted to them.
If someone was flirting with my boyfriend and I didn't feel jealousy, I can only assume that would mean the same thing.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 2/14/04 - 1:36:51 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, it might just mean you trust him/her or possibly have an open relationship.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Sunday 2/15/04 - 12:07:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
It depends on how my SO was reacting to the flirting. But i know i feel some jealousy when i see him talking to another female. Its human nature.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/16/04 - 10:07:19 AM EST (GMT-5)
It depends...if he's flirting back, or looking interested, then yes, I'm jealous. But if he's just talking to a chick, I don't care. Lord knows I have so many guy friends, (like...almost every friend I have is a dude) so I cain't date a jealous guy.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/16/04 - 6:12:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
I wouldn't be jealous because I trust Mr. hotfox totally. He is true blue.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/16/04 - 6:16:57 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm probably jealous because they are not flirting with me.
18 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/16/04 - 6:30:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, it just means that you don't get jealous very easily.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Thursday 2/26/04 - 6:54:43 AM EST (GMT-5)
if i wasn't jealous i guess it would mean that i know he wouldn't go out with her.
18 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 4/8/04 - 10:18:00 AM EST (GMT-5)
You should run over and kill them with your bare hands
18 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Thursday 4/8/04 - 10:18:11 AM EST (GMT-5)
18 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Friday 4/16/04 - 10:01:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
It could mean that you aren't the jealous type, and think that your significant other is a grown person capable of making decisions for themselves.

If your significant other is not a grown person, then there are way more issues involved than I can shake a stick at.

18 yrs ago, 1 mos ago - Friday 4/16/04 - 10:13:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
Others can flirt with her if they like, she is coming home with me. The rest doesn't matter.
17 yrs ago, 11 mos ago - Friday 6/11/04 - 8:26:19 AM EST (GMT-5)
Well, according to Human Relations in high school, your only in a "Healthy Relationship" If you NEVER feel any sort of jealousy towards your partner. So, according to the social paramount, this question would just mean that you were in a healthy relationship.

BUT... i being HUMAN, would experience some jealousy. But can that be helped?

17 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Friday 8/13/04 - 8:44:07 AM EST (GMT-5)
depends on how well shes flirtin, but usually no as i trust him and know he wouldn't do such a thing and that she doesnt hav a hope in hell as he will be comin home with me.
17 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Monday 8/30/04 - 3:53:52 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think if you have a good solid relationship, & a strong sense of self-esteem, a little flirting shouldn't bother you.

However, I might feel a little bit of "who-the-heck-does-she-think-SHE-is " if she's REALLY flirting hard & means it, & I'm standing right there.

17 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Monday 8/30/04 - 6:17:36 PM EST (GMT-5)
Just means I trust him. But I'd still probably give HER a talking to.
17 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Monday 8/30/04 - 6:40:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
I don't really think it means that at all. If I wasn't jealous it's probably because I'm not worried about him being a threat to me.
17 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Monday 8/30/04 - 6:45:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nah... after 15 years of marriage... I'm flattered in an 'eat your heart out' way...
17 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Friday 9/10/04 - 6:53:22 PM EST (GMT-5)
Maybe... I dunno.
17 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Monday 10/18/04 - 10:32:26 AM EST (GMT-5)
I agree with Cryn_out. I think when you trust someone--I mean truly trust someone--it takes more than just flirting to make you jealous.

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