I could never understand people, and to this day I`m still struggling to understand them. I hate feeling like the middle man. Here`s the situation, two friends of mine are... Who's Online | Find Members | Private Messages
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18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:25:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
I could never understand people, and to this day I'm still struggling to understand them. I hate feeling like the middle man. Here's the situation, two friends of mine are basically at throats with one another. One doesn't want the other to "flirt" with people she just meets. She went on and on about there being "codes" or "rules" when it comes to friendships. To me it seems like she's way too competitive, maybe it's just because I don't see things the same way she does. But anyway, both have given me their sides to the story.. and obviously they both don't jive. I don't know what to do. I don't want to take sides or anything. Any advice?
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:34:07 PM EST (GMT-5)
You can either tell them both they're being ridiculous or refuse to be involved. And I suppose there's a place in the middle where you make sympathetic noises but don't really contribute to either side. I'd refuse to get involved.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:37:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
Tell them both that you're staying out of it. Deal sealed.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:40:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
that's a good idea. I think if I don't involve myself, it'll result in less stress. thanks.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:53:16 PM EST (GMT-5)
STAY OUT... show no sympathy, empathy or anything, those girls sound like they like cat fights... (or guys, as the case may be) and I can bet you won't want to be thrown in the mix!
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:58:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
no, I don't. and they're girls. I wouldn't listen if a guy friend came to me with problems, they can deal with it on their own. I'd rather listen to girls. Cat fights can be fun, right? But I don't want involvement.. that's all. I also don't want stuff thrown in my face for supposedly taking one side over another. Ya know?
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 10:59:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
Sorry for the next comment- you'll come to learn that YT is full of perverts: Cat fights can be fun, if it involves you, one or two other women, and lots of moaning and scratching...
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:01:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
haha there was no harm done through that comment.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:02:38 PM EST (GMT-5)
my parents always try to get me to side with them when they're fighting. it's incredibly obnoxious.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:02:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
wait a minute.. isn't there another word for what you described that applies better??
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:04:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
orgy?
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:07:00 PM EST (GMT-5)
hey, your on your game tonite. whatever game that is.
18 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 7/20/03 - 11:09:04 PM EST (GMT-5)
woohoo! truth or dare?



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