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Female, 18-29
, NC, Eastern US

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Hombre Lobo en Paris La Union

Interests: Philosophy / Music / Feminism / Animals / TV
Homepage: Click Here
IM Type: (Decline to State) IM Name:
Occupation: listening
Marital Status: (Decline to State)
Sexual Preference: Straight
Religion: Agnostic
Politics: Liberal
Fav. Movie: Spirit of the Beehive
Fav. TV Show: Veep
Fav. Book: Escape from Freedom
Fav. Song: Turnover - Fugazi
Fav. Food: chickpeas
Fav. Car: station wagons
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More than one of us are at this precise external location - Mood:Good
Thursday September 13 20185:03:59 PM |
Just got to see my long-lost cousin nbd

In my joy I forgot to ask for a pic :'-( but we also discovered cpayne could beat us at witchcraft over tacos on Monday

A wonderful couple of days.
thankful for this place

Journal - in Colorado for a week for a yearly work conference. Worried about my fam back home and hoping not to need to fly back in a storm. It's been a rough month and I am thankful for you humans. I haven't felt as alone since the new job but YT is kind of the support group that's helped me make fewer bad decisions in the transition.

Love, love

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Dumb question - Mood:Good
Saturday August 18 20185:57:00 PM |

You are dating someone
An old friend who isn't the s.o. invites you to a movie on a Saturday night
The old friend is also dating someone else and is decidedly platonic
Your s.o. knows you've hung out with your friend, isn't a jealous type
This is the first night you make plans for a movie in the evening, together, just the two of you

Assume you're aware your boyfriend trusts you
And you're very loyal
And you trust your guy friend to be respectful

Question - do you volunteer the information to the boyfriend, or just go and tell him later? Is this a bait-y sort of thing to tell a significant other or is it expected? What is the common etiquette, a short heads-up message, like "hey just a heads up that Joe and I are heading out to see such movie" or what

Thank you

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- Mood:Good
Sunday July 22 20185:11:13 PM |
Just want to meet the man who can empathize
& consider my feelings, or needs before sending a text
And continue that even after he's gotten himself a Girlfriend

Just half the texts not being about seeking reassurance
Or trying to get me to add cheer to his day, or sex
Or empty talk about future plans when he doesn't know my current life

30% would be improvement

Today I was frustrated and dealing with it alright
Until the text came and pushed a boundary, reopenening the angry, oozing wound

And now I'm in my towel giving myself the postshower pep talk to get ready to go see friends

I have to see him tuesday, picked a public area & will have to hold the queasy pit in my stomach until at least then

Tried breaking up after he did something manipulative 2 weeks ago, figuring out how to address the issue without trying to do it again

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