My husband has Stage IV Adenocarcinoma.
Went in for right flank pain Monday. Thought it was just an issue with his gall bladder, or appendix, or liver. A fixable issue.
It was an adrenal hemorrhage.
He had a bronchoscopy to do a biopsy Tuesday. Got the results yesterday. And the adrenal gland wasn't removed or repaired, anything, so he still has a lot of immediate pain.
The kids are now young adults, 18-22. they know cancer, and that he'll be getting chemo,we found that out Tue afternoon/. They know it's bad, because they've seen me fall apart. they don't know how bad. I can't tell them yet, because he can't do it yet, and doesn't want to.
he's told his sister and father (his mom passed in April from cancer) , my parents, some people he works with.
one of those bastards asked him if he was going to off himself. F*ck that guy.
I need to be strong. I haven't found it in me yet.