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hamletsghost
Female,
18-29
Australia / NZ
Joined: 5 months ago
6,572 Posts
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Sunday 8/9/09 - 6:51:16 PM
So my choices are to tell them that I'm attracted to them, or ask them out and hide the fact that I'm attracted to them?
Not making alot of sense... |
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Guardian_E
Male,
18-29
Canada
Joined: 7 yrs, 10 mos ago
4,840 Posts
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Monday 8/10/09 - 12:23:25 PM
Haha neither, I'm a wuss. I usually end up pulling the "friend" route which gets me no where because then I become "too much of a friend". You know, because women like to marry/go out with guys who they don't plan on being good friends with.
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Monday 8/10/09 - 2:29:57 PM
On Sunday 8/9/09 - 6:51:16 PM hamletsghost wrote:
So my choices are to tell them that I'm attracted to them, or ask them out and hide the fact that I'm attracted to them? Not making alot of sense... |
I agree. Wouldn't this have been better if the choices were something like, "Tell them" or "Remain silent:"? |
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mer_359
Female,
18-29
Eastern US
Joined: 11 months ago
2,932 Posts
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Monday 8/10/09 - 2:30:59 PM
i usually just flirt with them until they ask me out...and if they don't they either A) have no interest or B) have no balls |
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lossof_life
Female,
13-17
Midwest US
Joined: 3 yrs, 10 mos ago
13,407 Posts
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Monday 8/10/09 - 4:33:53 PM
I tell them. That's what I did with my current guy and he told me he liked me too. A couple of days later we were dating. |
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invisiblegrl
Female,
18-29
Southern US
Joined: 4 yrs, 10 mos ago
1,511 Posts
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Tuesday 8/11/09 - 2:18:34 AM
Well if I'm going to cop up to finding someone attractive, I might as well go all the way and invite him for a coffee. Jeeze. It's like a disgusting sort of non-choice here. Either way you have to say something. Imagine how hard it is when you're painfully shy. |
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Kendall42
Female,
13-17
Europe
Joined: 3 months ago
35 Posts
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Tuesday 8/11/09 - 4:43:20 PM
Neither, I sit there nervously and say nothing. Much like I do with most people I don't know very well. |
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6DarkAngel6
Female,
18-29
Canada
Joined: 4 yrs, 7 mos ago
6,327 Posts
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Tuesday 8/11/09 - 9:23:51 PM
Its pretty obvious when I'm attarcted to someone so they should be able to figure it out themselves. |
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ladies.first
Female,
18-29
Canada
Joined: 4 months ago
893 Posts
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Wednesday 8/12/09 - 2:45:21 AM
Im attracted to Johny Depp but Im not about to go ask him out. If I liked someone I would somehow let them know without being pathetic, but unless they came out and asked or said it first I dont think I could just say it. |
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