Question Who's Online | Find Members | Private Messages
Questions
Quizzes
Articles
My Journal
Forums
Answer Questions | Question Comments | My Questions | Favorites | +Add Question
LATEST
POPULAR PRIORITY RANDOM

All | Games | Funny | Entertainment | Quizzes | Weird | Tech | People | Arts/Lit | News | Science | Sports | Places | Misc

355 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 12 years ago by falconwing

Would you mind if your boyfriend/girlfriend went out to party without you?


Put This Question on Your Page (MySpace, Livejournal, Blog, etc)
[Preview] EMBED CODE:


Bottom Last Post

12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Saturday 7/14/07 - 11:48:28 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yeah unless it was a guys only type of thing (excluding bachelor parties)
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Sunday 7/15/07 - 11:37:33 AM EST (GMT-5)
Of course I would mind. I don't trust any man.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/16/07 - 5:37:07 AM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/15/2007 11:37:34 AM Cryndigo wrote:
Of course I would mind. I don't trust any man.

I feel that way a lot, too.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/16/07 - 5:45:10 AM EST (GMT-5)
it would depend on how much i trust him, and if i know who is going to be there. and if there was a specific reason as to why i couldnt be there.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/16/07 - 12:29:28 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I wouldn't mind as long as we spend some time together. With my ex boyfriend I didn't mind if he went out with his friends because I trusted him and actually wanted him to have fun with them.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Monday 7/16/07 - 12:30:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
Wouldn't know.

*slits wrists*

12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 12:04:46 AM EST (GMT-5)
On 7/16/2007 12:29:29 PM angeleyesgr wrote:
No, I wouldn't mind as long as we spend some time together. With my ex boyfriend I didn't mind if he went out with his friends because I trusted him and actually wanted him to have fun with them.

Great answer! I think couples need some time apart to hang out with the friends they had before the relationship and I have no problem with my girl going out without me.

12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 12:20:23 AM EST (GMT-5)
I think its good to do things with friends, but as for things like drinking parties and frat parties, no drating way. My ex-girlfriend had a thought about going to a frat party and it made me want to blow my head off. Especially after what I had heard about that place.

Here's a better thought into this. If you're a young couple and will be seperate with other young people, its a bad idea. There are friends and other negative influences around, especially when alcohol is involved.

Oh yeah, I despise bacholor and bacholorette parties. (Yeah, I don't know the proper spelling)

12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 12:27:46 AM EST (GMT-5)
I would be hurt if he/she did not invite me. But if he/she invited me and I didn't want to go then I wouldn't care if he/she went. It is the sneaking around and going without inviting me which would be the problem.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 12:31:23 AM EST (GMT-5)
God if I minded I would have broken up with my boyfriend 1000 times by now. We never really hang out with eachother's friends, I don't like his, he doesn't like mine. Plus I don't like the thought of not having a social life outside of a relationship...scary...
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 12:36:56 AM EST (GMT-5)
In general, I wouldn't mind. That is, if I had a girlfriend. I don't see the harm in both of us having social lives outside of the romantic relationship. I guess it could be a problem if it were certain types of parties. I think that not allowing your SO to go to parties alone seems a bit controlling.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 1:10:53 AM EST (GMT-5)
I could really care less. Especially if I really didn't want to go.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Tuesday 7/17/07 - 4:10:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
I have no issues at all with this. I trust my guy and his judgement.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Wednesday 7/18/07 - 2:52:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would mind, big time.
12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 7/19/07 - 2:08:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's healthier on a relationship if there is freedom to do things not as a couple.

I don't mind when my boyfriend parties with his friends. I know he's coming home to me, and the girls there are no problem to me.

When you start spending every waking minute with someone and won't let them go do other things, that's when relationships don't make it.

12 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Friday 7/20/07 - 9:25:10 AM EST (GMT-5)
Well, it depends on who I was seeing, but if I trusted them, yes they could go no problem.
12 yrs ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 8/12/07 - 10:53:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
No. If I wasn't invited, or I didn't want to go, then it's his decision.
12 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Tuesday 8/28/07 - 6:19:18 AM EST (GMT-5)
No, all of my SOs have let me go to parties alone and vice-versa. We don't have the same friends and don't necessarily like the same kind of parties so that's only fair.
12 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Saturday 12/8/07 - 10:21:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
nah. i don't mind. he can have life.
plus. i trust him.

i don't see how someone can have such a huge issue over this as long as you have trust.

and if you don't have trust then what the heck are you doing going out with them?

12 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Sunday 12/9/07 - 10:48:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
Depends on who else is going to be there and what kind of party it is.
12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/29/07 - 2:14:32 PM EST (GMT-5)
stupid question
12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/29/07 - 2:16:16 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I don't get jealous or petty, she can do whatever she wants.
12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/29/07 - 2:20:04 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 12/29/2007 2:14:32 PM CWOLF28 wrote:
stupid question

in what way? as you can see there are a few different answers and we don't know you

12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/29/07 - 2:22:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
Also I think this is another one of those questions where the majority of people will simply lie, maybe more female than male, but I've met just too many crazy people who freak out when their partners do anything without them, especially party, that I find it hard to believe that everyone here is so rational.
12 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/29/07 - 2:22:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
He goes out with his friends. He doesn't really like loud obnoxious parties but he's certainly had a few drinks with the boys.



You need to be logged in to post a reply

New to YT? Create a Free Account ~ Have an Account? Log In

Top



10 Most Popular Questions Today
1 If a defendant is found `not guilty`, do you assume that they are innocent?

2 Should transgender people use the bathroom of the gender on their birth certificates, or by what gender they most look like?

3 Have you ever gotten a small loan of a million dollars?

4 Have you ever been in a fist fight before?

5 Is Rock and Roll here to stay?

6 Would you rather have no elbows or no knees?

7 Do you think Donald Trump will become the president of the United States?

8 Is Squidward`s skin color blue or green?

9 Has anyone from youthink ever been on Jeopardy?

10 Are you a dedicated follower of fashion?

More Questions
Friends
Daily Moment of Joy
Personality Quizzes
Funny Videos
I-Am-Bored.com
Free IQ Test
The Impossible Quiz
Intelligence Test
Relationship Test
Doodie Cartoons
 
Edit