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543 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 13 years ago by falconwing

Would you rather be loved for being who you are not, or hated for being who you are?


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13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/2/06 - 7:53:05 AM EST (GMT-5)
not sure if the options should be 'yes or 'no'
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/2/06 - 8:07:20 AM EST (GMT-5)
Hate for who I am.

And I half expected for mosher_400 to have put this question but oh well.

Actually, he might not be clever enough to think of it.

13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 12/2/06 - 9:16:42 AM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 12:26:11 AM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am. That way, if someone does come to like me, I'll know it's a genuine attraction.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 12:31:09 AM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am. At least there's no guilt or dishonesty associated with that one.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 12:33:38 AM EST (GMT-5)
is this a trick question? hehe
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 12:34:37 AM EST (GMT-5)
Would it not sound romanticized if I said I'd rather be hated for who I am?
Too bad it's not always like that.
If I were fake, I'd probably have a job by now.

People are hypocrites and they are full of sh-t. Society endorses individuality, but closes its doors on people who look or act different.

Please

I mean, it's not right of them to discriminate against me for these reasons, but at the same time, I shouldn't be surprised at all.

Even though I expect that people will treat me less appropriately, it doesn't make it any less painful.

If I just played along and went with the rest of the crowd, I could get by in life.

13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 12:57:56 AM EST (GMT-5)
^^Yeah, but you'd hate yourself for it. Or at least I would, anyway. That's where the whole "guilt" thing comes in--sure, people would love you, but it would come at the cost of being overcome with guilt and self-loathing.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Sunday 12/3/06 - 1:09:54 AM EST (GMT-5)
I just like to eat popcorn and watch skinflix while walking on my treadmill. There's just no time for friends I guess...so I don't know what it is to be hated or loved.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Monday 12/4/06 - 11:09:54 AM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am.
13 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 12/6/06 - 8:07:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hated. Cuz being hated is very fun. =P
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 9:27:55 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's the worst possible situation when you are hated for being who you are not! Like being misunderstood.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 9:30:28 PM EST (GMT-5)
id rather b loved 4 who i am
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 9:36:46 PM EST (GMT-5)
hated for who i am
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 9:37:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
very good question falcon!
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 9:43:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 10:21:55 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 12/3/2006 12:57:56 AM _trivium wrote:
^^Yeah, but you'd hate yourself for it. Or at least I would, anyway. That's where the whole "guilt" thing comes in--sure, people would love you, but it would come at the cost of being overcome with guilt and self-loathing.

That may be true, but I understand that if I don't conform, I won't get by in life. I can't even get a job for this reason.

13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Thursday 12/7/06 - 10:25:37 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am. I think being loved for being somebody I'm not would really chew me up. I couldn't stand being so fake.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 12/9/06 - 3:53:48 PM EST (GMT-5)
Definatly hated.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 12/9/06 - 4:03:38 PM EST (GMT-5)
I've been hated, and I don't care for it.

I'm who I am. I will act the way I act.

If the person who loves me sees who I am and believes I'm someone else, I'll still take that person's love. Eventually, they may see who I am and believe who I am, and still love me.

Better than being hated.

13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 12/9/06 - 4:12:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hate me, please.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Saturday 12/9/06 - 4:14:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
Hated for who I am.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 12/26/06 - 1:33:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
Finally a good question. I'd have to agree with the masses here and say hated.
13 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 12/26/06 - 1:40:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd rather be loved for something I'm not. Playing pretend is fun.
13 yrs ago, 2 mos ago - Sunday 1/14/07 - 1:34:01 PM EST (GMT-5)
i'd rather be loved

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