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1,647 hits Rate me! Share Favorite | Flag 14 years ago by Mat

If someone had a problem with you, would you want them to tell you to your face or talk about you behind your back?


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14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 11:06:18 AM EST (GMT-5)
Tell them to my face. I'll take them more seriously if they do that. If I find them talking about me behind their back, I know they are either cowards or just attention seekers and I won't take them seriously.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 11:09:23 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'd rather them tell it to my face.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 11:30:30 AM EST (GMT-5)
I agree completely ^^ I hate when people talk about me behind my back.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 1:44:37 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd rather have them talk behind my back. I don't want to know what's wrong with me and I'd find it rude.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 1:51:44 PM EST (GMT-5)
Tell me to my face. That way, I can handle it right then.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 6:16:04 PM EST (GMT-5)
i always tell people to come to me if they have a problem with me.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 8:52:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
i'd rather them tell me to my face.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 8:53:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Who wants to be insulted behind their back?

At least if someone confronts you, you can defend yourself.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 6/15/06 - 10:02:24 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 6/15/2006 11:06:18 AM Porpoise wrote:
Tell them to my face. I'll take them more seriously if they do that. If I find them talking about me behind their back, I know they are either cowards or just attention seekers and I won't take them seriously.

Well said

14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 6/16/06 - 4:52:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
They should say it to your face.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 6/16/06 - 4:54:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
If they don't have the decency (and the balls) to tell me to my face, than I don't give a sh*t what their problem is.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 6/16/06 - 4:57:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
Say it to my face.
14 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 6/17/06 - 11:54:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
It's just easier to tell them upfront.
14 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Saturday 8/5/06 - 5:08:16 PM EST (GMT-5)
i hate, hate, hate when people talk about me behind their back. i have no respect whatsoever for such people. if you have a problem with me, then come tell me to my face like an adult and lets talk about it!
14 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Saturday 8/5/06 - 5:11:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
To my face, and in English,ok maybe with a British accent.
14 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Saturday 8/5/06 - 5:12:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
Tell me to my face.
14 yrs ago, 5 mos ago - Sunday 8/6/06 - 2:07:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
I picked back, I'd rather not have to deal with them directly.
Guess I'm in the minority.
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 5:11:10 PM EST (GMT-5)
Tell it to my face... so I can smack 'em.
But seriously, I would like them to tell me. I can't stand it when people start talking about me to other people, mostly because things they say are un-true, or mis-interpreted.
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 5:13:16 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would rather they told me to my face.
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 5:16:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
Tell me to my face.
People who gossip about others are sneaky little weenies who don't have anything truly interesting to talk about.
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 5:38:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
most definately tell it to my face
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 10:58:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
to the face..lol learned it the hard way
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 11:01:54 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd probably respect them more if they talked to me about it, but in acutality I wouldn't really care much either way.
14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 8/23/06 - 11:21:18 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'd want them to tell me because I'm a very confrontational person.

I have my ways.

14 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Thursday 8/24/06 - 6:43:43 AM EST (GMT-5)
It seems the obvious answer here is that we'd all want people to confront us. Generally I would agree. But, if the issue was some absurd pointless little thing, especially if the person wasn't a friend or I was already having a bad day and I had absolutely nothing to gain from the knowledge, well then they can keep their mouths shut and their gigles behind me.

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