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2 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 10/16/10 - 5:10:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
No. Dreams are dreams. It's what they do in real life that I'm concerned about.
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Darkjupiter
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Western US
Joined: 4 yrs, 3 mos ago
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/23/10 - 10:26:27 AM EST (GMT-5)
No
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/10 - 10:56:43 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'm a little surprised to see all the "no" answers. While dreams are certainly not in your control, someone who had constant recurring dreams about sex with a specific other person can't really be that into you...
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/10 - 11:23:02 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 10/30/10 - 10:56:43 AM heatherlw wrote: I'm a little surprised to see all the "no" answers. While dreams are certainly not in your control, someone who had constant recurring dreams about sex with a specific other person can't really be that into you... |
That's not the question, though. It says other people, not another specific person.
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/10 - 12:01:24 PM EST (GMT-5)
This question is BS. We're not in control of our dreams.
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peddlefish
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Western US
Joined: 2 yrs, 7 mos ago
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/10 - 2:43:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 10/30/10 - 10:56:43 AM heatherlw wrote: I'm a little surprised to see all the "no" answers. While dreams are certainly not in your control, someone who had constant recurring dreams about sex with a specific other person can't really be that into you... |
Not necessarily. I have a friend who loves ... oh I cant think of her name now, but its some actress and Im sure he'd love to have sex dreams about her, but he is also completely madly in love with his girlfriend and would never IRL cheat on her.
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2 yrs ago, 6 mos ago - Saturday 10/30/10 - 3:21:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Thursday 10/14/10 - 11:34:37 AM griffin_wf wrote: What kind of insecure bitch/dick do you have to be to be offended that they're dreaming about having sex with someone else? |
Speak of the Devil
On Saturday 10/30/10 - 10:56:43 AM heatherlw wrote: I'm a little surprised to see all the "no" answers. While dreams are certainly not in your control, someone who had constant recurring dreams about sex with a specific other person can't really be that into you... |
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chickclique
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18-29
Eastern US
Joined: 5 yrs, 1 mos ago
347 Posts
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1 yr ago, 11 mos ago - Thursday 6/2/11 - 11:29:42 AM EST (GMT-5)
That would be one of the worst reasons to break up with someone.... That's just overly dramatic.
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1 yr ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/13/12 - 5:28:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, that's a lame reason.
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Dive
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18-29
Western US
Joined: 1 yr, 3 mos ago
91 Posts
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1 yr ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 2/13/12 - 5:55:37 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, that's just dumb.
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1 yr ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 2/14/12 - 1:32:31 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Thursday 10/14/10 - 11:34:37 AM griffin_wf wrote: What kind of insecure bitch/dick do you have to be to be offended that they're dreaming about having sex with someone else? |
For the dreams - no.
But - there's something wrong with him if he feels the need to continually tell me about his sexual dreams about other women - especially if I've asked him to keep his dreams to himself.
THAT might be a reason to break up.
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Flare13
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18-29
Western US
Joined: 6 yrs, 2 mos ago
4,417 Posts
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1 yr ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 2/14/12 - 3:01:48 AM EST (GMT-5)
lol wut
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1 yr ago, 3 mos ago - Tuesday 2/14/12 - 6:46:21 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'd probably want to hear details about the dream sex and be amused about it.
Dreams are dreams.
I don't even care if they fantasize about other people sometimes CONSCIOUSLY while awake.
I don't want an open relationship but...you know...you can have monogamy and...people can have thoughts and dreams and such.
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Damsel
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Southern US
Joined: 10 yrs, 8 mos ago
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3 months ago - Monday 1/21/13 - 10:07:04 AM EST (GMT-5)
No. It would be exciting. I get turned on when he shows an attraction towards other women. As long as he doesn't act on it in reality, I like it. I'd like him to tell me about his dream. But he is too much of a killjoy to share something like that with me. He's too respectful to share something like that with me. Sometimes I'd like to yank that stick right out of the mud.
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3 months ago - Monday 1/21/13 - 1:15:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/14/12 - 1:32:31 AM Wanderer wrote: there's something wrong with him if he feels the need to continually tell me about his sexual dreams about other women - especially if I've asked him to keep his dreams to himself. |
I'm surprised by how many people aren't interested in the dreams of their partner, or explicitly don't want to hear them.
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3 months ago - Monday 1/21/13 - 1:42:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
Why? They're just dreams. Boring.
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3 months ago - Monday 1/21/13 - 1:52:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
I would have deserved to be dumped three times this morning, I guess.
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