I am having an awful panic attack right now. My boyfriend went to his brothers house last night. He said there was no interent there for some reason so he... Who's Online | Find Members | Private Messages
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Well this is just totally setting off my anxiety

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1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:42:50 AM EST (GMT-5)
I am having an awful panic attack right now.

My boyfriend went to his brothers house last night. He said there was no interent there for some reason so he couldn't message on facebook. He had to text. we texted until around 2 am.

I woke up this morning and sent him a text message, and got a text message from some other number saying that the text couldn't go through because the number was out of service. I called and got the same thing.

Why would it say that?!

He didn't say anything was going to happen to his phone.

I'm trying to calm down and rationalize, but my brain keeps coming up with all these frightening scenarios as to why this could have happened.

I wish I had just stayed asleep.

The exact message is": The customer you are trying to text is out of service. Msg 2132.

1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:45:32 AM EST (GMT-5)
That just means that his phone is either off or dead.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:45:59 AM EST (GMT-5)
probably just in a pocket where his phone isn't getting service

try and relax
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:46:15 AM EST (GMT-5)
or what geekee said
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:48:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
I am still going to make you a thing!

Anyway, I tried to google about that real quick...
At first I thought it seemed temporary but
I was finding stuff about...it meaning that the person's phone service is cancelled or suspended or something else...

something about it possibly being from not paying a bill.
but i don't know.
that was just quick googling.

so, if there's any reason he might not have paid his bill...maybe that's it...and he'll probably get in contact with you again soon.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:49:17 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:45:32 AM geekee wrote:
That just means that his phone is either off or dead.


text messages are still received then.

at least, with every phone i've ever had they have...
of course, the person doesn't get them and see them until they turn the phone back on....but the company doesn't send error messages...
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:50:44 AM EST (GMT-5)
I'm trying really hard to rationalize and think that. But I have this thing where when something happens I start getting ideas and they start circulating and circulating and circulating.

Right now I'm at

-He moved and didn't tell me and got his phone disconnected
-He decided he wanted to break up and didn't want to tell me so he disconnected his phone
-I'm just never going to hear from him again


And he wouldn't do these things to me but I seriously feel like I can't breathe thinking about them ,and I know he's been having problems with signal recently in weird places where he normally wouldn't ,but would that make it say that the number is out of service? It hasn't before when he's had bad signal.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:51:00 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:45:59 AM Disappears wrote:
probably just in a pocket where his phone isn't getting service try and relax


Also, it's probably not this either...for the same reason as above. Your phone doesn't receive them until you get back to an area that's in service but the text messages are still sent to your phone...and it doesn't result in an error.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:52:12 AM EST (GMT-5)
1. Does he still have you friended on facebook? If he wanted to go to extreme measures to cut you out of his life, he would also have unfriended you.

1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:53:37 AM EST (GMT-5)
Still friended still in a relationship.

Does that mean the internet would've been canceled at their house too?
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:53:43 AM EST (GMT-5)
2. If he moved, switched phones, got cut off because of a bill issue, etc etc...he will most likely get in contact with you again soon.

3. If this doesn't fit in with his regular pattern of behavior, it's unlikely that he is trying to break up with you in this way.

5. Do you go to school with him or anything? or is this long distance? I don't know much about your relationship
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:54:38 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:53:37 AM Energized wrote:
Still friended still in a relationship. Does that mean the internet would've been canceled at their house too?


Possibly if they had it with the same plan.
I don't know what company it is or how that all works...but it's possible, i guess.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:57:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
We go to school together. I'm really frightened that I'm going to go to school tomorrow and he won't be there.

I mean, he was telling me yesterday about how he has his next therapy session again Monday, and we were talking about maybe going to see a movie this week if the anti depressants lay off enough for him to feel up to it. So unless this is a really elaborate lie, I don't THINK that's what's going on.

And ok it probably isn't. Though my heads still all "what if you just never hear from him again"
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:58:17 AM EST (GMT-5)
Also, not a whole lot of time has elapsed since this started, right?

I'm in Japan so...
I'm not sure what time it is where you are
but it seems it's been a short amount of time

He might not even be aware of the problem yet...maybe?
What if he's still sleeping?
I don't know but

It could take a while for him to contact you again about it.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:58:17 AM EST (GMT-5)
1, 2, 3, 5

I like your counting shak
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 12:02:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's 12, and I woke up at 11. So a bit over an hour. He sleeps late sometimes. And I have no idea what time he would be going home, and have access to a computer to contact me.

Plus if his internet is caught off too, then he won't be able to do it from there either.
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 12:03:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/30/12 - 11:58:17 AM geekee wrote:
1, 2, 3, 5 I like your counting shak


It's a Japanese thing.
(I think! Am I right Shak?)
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 12:07:00 PM EST (GMT-5)
it's not reaaaaaaallly a japanese thing but that number is considered unlucky in japan BUT i just do that....often....while listing....not for any real big reason
1 yr ago, 9 mos ago - Sunday 9/30/12 - 12:07:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/30/12 - 12:02:39 PM Energized wrote:
It's 12, and I woke up at 11. So a bit over an hour. He sleeps late sometimes. And I have no idea what time he would be going home, and have access to a computer to contact me. Plus if his internet is caught off too, then he won't be able to do it from there either.


It'll probably be settled tomorrow. Hopefully he'll show up at school then.



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