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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:36:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
sounds safe.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:37:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
He didn't do the coke until after I passed out.
And I've known this guy for almost two years. I though I could trust him.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:37:33 PM EST (GMT-5)
regardless of how blown you are
you still pretty much know what you are doing/have control over it. what a tard.
also- he probably thought you had given him signals earlier in the day
tried snuggling with you/waking you up
realized you were waaaay too wasted to even get to a conscious point
and went away
i've had that happen. it's just like, what? No. Go away. And they go. Boys are dumb.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:37:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
Geeze, dont put yourself in vulnerable situations.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:39:10 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:37:41 PM tulip wrote: Geeze, dont put yourself in vulnerable situations. |
seriously.
I hardly drink because it makes people so stupid.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:40:13 PM EST (GMT-5)
Seems like Sleepy did.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:40:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I guess I've just been very lucky with the guys I've drunk with in the past, and kinda expected the same from this guy.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:41:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
people named mike are just bad news.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:42:36 PM EST (GMT-5)
I drink a lot, usually about once a week, and always with guys.
Often we crash at one another's houses.
We always take care of each other and keep each other safe.
So, I guess I was just I've been privileged and was naive.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:44:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
kick him so hard in the gonads that he coughs them up.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:49:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
Ok, you have been schooled. Be smarter.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:50:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
Urg, I know.
I'm just super thankful it was just groping or whatever.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:30:06 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:40:34 PM SleepyJean wrote: I guess I've just been very lucky with the guys I've drunk with in the past, and kinda expected the same from this guy. |
From what you remember, anyway
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM EST (GMT-5)
Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:40:09 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM slinky0 wrote: Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty. |
Exactly what I was going to say.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:40:40 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM slinky0 wrote: Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty. |
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:40:09 AM Ongooshk wrote: Exactly what I was going to say. |
This
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:46:59 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM slinky0 wrote: Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty. |
I thought nothing happened?
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Wreshy
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Midwest US
Joined: 3 yrs, 1 mos ago
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:48:40 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:28:18 PM theBSR wrote: Perfect YT example. Me and Rac passed out really f*cked up on her bed while skyping other YTers 3 weeks ago. She passed out first, I didn't try and throw it in her, because she is my friend, I'm with someone, and I'm not a scumbag. See how that works? |
fag
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:49:15 AM EST (GMT-5)
I definitely think passing out drunk is careless. As its walking down a dark deserted street, and in general putting yourself in bad situations. You should rely on yourself to make safe decisions
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:49:23 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:28:18 PM theBSR wrote: I'm not a scumbag. |
Liar.
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Wreshy
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Midwest US
Joined: 3 yrs, 1 mos ago
13,304 Posts
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:50:51 AM EST (GMT-5)
i just lost so much respect for bsr
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:51:23 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 1/3/12 - 11:28:18 PM theBSR wrote: Perfect YT example. Me and Rac passed out really f*cked up on her bed while skyping other YTers 3 weeks ago. She passed out first, I didn't try and throw it in her, because she is my friend, I'm with someone, and I'm not a scumbag. See how that works? |
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:48:54 AM snowbdr88 wrote: Liar. |
Sorry i'm about to go on a tangent here  But i've always wished i could like.. attach a fake vag when sleeping next to a dude for the first few times, its a good test of 'is this guy a scumbag' whether he tries to put it in or nor. But i don't wanna do that test with my own vag. Since.. that could go wrong. So like.. decoy vag.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:51:39 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM slinky0 wrote: Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty. |
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:46:59 AM catchall wrote: I thought nothing happened? |
Either way, tulip's "well you should have known better" attitude is one that pretty much every victim of sexual assault faces and it's complete bull. No one ever tells a person who gets beaten up that he or she should have been more alert to trouble and it's their fault they got jumped.
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:52:04 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:38:08 AM slinky0 wrote: Some of you sound like you're blaming the victim here. That's pretty pooty. |
I don't think anyone is blaming her - although several seem to be encouraging her to be more mindful of her surroundings...
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1 yr ago, 4 mos ago - Wednesday 1/4/12 - 10:52:50 AM EST (GMT-5)
Where does the assault come in?
he tried to hook up with you and you rejected him. Hardly an assault.
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