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We shouldn`t be together should we.

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5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:46:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
He: "so whatcha doing?"
Me: "nothing. In between classes"
He: "ah."
*silence*
Me: "whats new?"
He: "nothing"
Me: oh
*silence*
Me: "whatcha doing tonight?"
He: "i don't know."
Me: "oh. what about tomorrow?"
He: "its my day off"
Me: "..so does that mean nothing?"
He: "well i have a meeting at 1pm"
Me: "ah"
*silence*
He: "so.."
Me: "..yea."
*silence*
He: "so i'm gonna get going"

EVERY DAMN TIME

I can talk for hours. To anyone. About anything. But not him.
Its frustrating.

I don't know.

To anyone on the outside is "durr... why are yall still together??!"

But. I dunno. When we are together in person its different. Maybe we just have lousy phone chemistry?

I think a problem is that i've been all depressy lately.
Maybe if i wasn't, we'd click better?

5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:47:04 PM EST (GMT-5)


I know what a problem is honestly. No one can compare to my ex. it was so easy with him.
Should i be looking for that again or am i holding onto an idea i should let go of?



zomg why gut spill to YT. thats like baiting hungry crocs.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:47:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
That happens to ME TOO. Well, lately. I'm wondering should we break up or something, because we have NOTHING to talk about now.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:48:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
get a more interesting boy friend
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:48:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
We don't have teeth like crocs do.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:48:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
Plus men on the phone dont really waffle. We tend to get straight to the point and if there is no point the conversation is like the one above.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:50:51 PM EST (GMT-5)
I keep thinking about what i talk about with people i can actually have conversations with.. and i do 80% of the talking/rambling. On one hand.. that always annoyed the snot out of my ex, and my friends. But on the other hand.. THERE'D BE SILENCE IF I DON'T DO THAT.

GAH.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:51:35 PM EST (GMT-5)
So, it's totally necessary for you to ramble.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:51:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:48:23 PM secretagent wrote:
We don't have teeth like crocs do.


i beg to differ
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:53:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
you don't have to have good phone conversations, but you should at least have some point in the phone calls.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:53:20 PM EST (GMT-5)
i can't ramble with this dude. with the ex, it annoyed him but he let me.

with this guy is CLEARLY bothers him... so.. we sit in silence.

i'm sorry if you thinking that me finding to spiders in my room last week is uninteresting and a waste of conversation but damn. then YOU talk about something.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:58:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
I always pull out the youtube videos, and then I get the response 'I just want to sit here and talk to you.'

Well then, TALK.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:03:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
I "always bitch" that we never talk, apparently. So yesterday he sits on my bed, looks at me and says "since you say we never talk, lets talk. Okay.. go."

And i'm like.. uh..er.. i don't talk well on the spot.

Then a little later i was trying to small talk chit chat and he like... shushes me. I was trying to show him my dance costumes and he was all... GAH. Trying to get off the topic, cuz he doesn't give a poo. Okay, dance costumes aren't your thing. but its important to me I listen to his boring car crap i don't care about.

Oh the healthy relationship we have
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:07:30 PM EST (GMT-5)
and you gave it up to him?
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:07:39 PM EST (GMT-5)
just move on.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:08:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:07:30 PM Brockgurl86 wrote:
and you gave it up to him?


lol really
I was saying that since they've had sex now his attitude has probably changed drastically.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:08:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:07:30 PM Brockgurl86 wrote:
and you gave it up to him?


i don't regret that
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:09:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
That's like me and my bff. 90% of our conversations are her bitching about something or other, and the other 10% is me offering advice to try and resolve those situations.
My advice just results in more bitching on her part.

I just realized, I'm not sure why I'm friends with her
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:12:07 PM EST (GMT-5)
he doesn't seem interested in things that go on in your life, or in talking to you, and recently you said even having sex with you.

you nabbed yourself a bore.
find a new guy, that's life, sometimes
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:14:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
So why are you still together? Do you honestly see yourself with this guy one year from now? five? Ten?

If not, is there really much point to sticking together if he's just not really that compatible with your personality?
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:14:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:12:07 PM yellowDog wrote:
he doesn't seem interested in things that go on in your life, or in talking to you, and recently you said even having sex with you. you nabbed yourself a bore. find a new guy, that's life, sometimes



wow yd. thats actually really good advice
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:15:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
WELL I'M ACTUALLY A REALLY GOOD ADVICE GIVER
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:16:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
why i am still with him is a buncha stupid, justification type, fear based bs reasons honestly.
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:17:32 PM EST (GMT-5)
Sounds like an awesome reason to continue dating someone!
5 yrs ago - Wednesday 4/8/09 - 4:17:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 4/8/09 - 3:47:04 PM NicolesLove wrote:
I know what a problem is honestly. No one can compare to my ex. it was so easy with him. Should i be looking for that again or am i holding onto an idea i should let go of? zomg why gut spill to YT. thats like baiting hungry crocs.

If he's an ex, he's an ex, let it go


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