So my cousin moved into the area like five years ago. She’s about my age. She’s doing social work in the area. It’s been a whirlwind of hanging out with... Who's Online | Find Members | Private Messages
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2 months ago - Sunday 9/15/19 - 8:10:37 PM EST (GMT-5)
So my cousin moved into the area like five years ago. She’s about my age. She’s doing social work in the area.

It’s been a whirlwind of hanging out with her and meeting people and having parties. I got sucked into the world of an older guy cousin in the area for a spell as well.

Long story short, this cousin was dating someone for a long time. They are no longer dating. My cousin is now dating other people. The thing is that twice now she’s had me meet someone she was currently seeing.

What does that mean?

Is that normal? It’s been mildly awkward. They were both very nice people.

Just any advice as to whether or not I’m being fooled or taken advantage of. That personality test thing said I’m most concerned with self preservation. I don’t like people playin on my phone.

I might just be complaining about normal socialization.

2 months ago - Sunday 9/15/19 - 8:52:38 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm not normal but I tend to not introduce my dates to anyone else. Could be because of the anticipated failure, though.

I feel like if she's introduced you to two different guys within a short period of time, that's moving a bit fast but what do I know?
2 months ago - Sunday 9/15/19 - 8:55:48 PM EST (GMT-5)
Unless I am reading it all wrong it sounds totally normal to me.

For some reason one of my cousins on my Daddy's side wanted to get in contact with me and so my aunt passed on my E-mail to him and we started communicating (this was years ago). He lived quite a way away so we didn't really know each other and had maybe met a handful of times when we were very young. Anyway I told him I liked a Stevie Nicks song and that somehow turned into my Daddy being told I was a participant of witchcraft in which I was then ripped a new one. I don't know why your post reminded me of that...estranged cousins I guess.
2 months ago - Sunday 9/15/19 - 11:05:54 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/15/19 - 8:52:38 PM _Ghoul_ wrote:
I'm not normal but I tend to not introduce my dates to anyone else. Could be because of the anticipated failure, though. I feel like if she's introduced you to two different guys within a short period of time, that's moving a bit fast but what do I know?


The first guy she was straightforward that he was a nice guy and he was a really nice guy. This new guy we kind of just shot the sh*t and he seemed really cool. I think she’s more interested in him but I don’t know.
2 months ago - Sunday 9/15/19 - 11:07:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 9/15/19 - 8:55:48 PM Damsel wrote:
Unless I am reading it all wrong it sounds totally normal to me. For some reason one of my cousins on my Daddy's side wanted to get in contact with me and so my aunt passed on my E-mail to him and we started communicating (this was years ago). He lived quite a way away so we didn't really know each other and had maybe met a handful of times when we were very young. Anyway I told him I liked a Stevie Nicks song and that somehow turned into my Daddy being told I was a participant of witchcraft in which I was then ripped a new one. I don't know why your post reminded me of that...estranged cousins I guess.


I think I’d be more the cousin that showed my cousin a satanic Stevie Nicks song...
2 months ago - Monday 9/16/19 - 12:34:55 AM EST (GMT-5)
I don't introduce people I'm casually dating to family. Then again, other than my mom and youngest son, I don't spend a lot of family time anyway.
2 months ago - Monday 9/16/19 - 1:12:12 AM EST (GMT-5)
It was "Sorcerer"
2 months ago - Monday 9/16/19 - 1:59:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
My cousin showed me Interpol and Elliot Smith one time while he was visiting.
1 month ago - Monday 9/16/19 - 11:45:00 PM EST (GMT-5)
No but seriously. These are the kinds of things that make me worry.

It’s one of those trust situations that I almost always fail at.

When I say that it’s been a whirlwind of reconnecting with this family member I mean it. I’m stuck between being worried and being angry. If that’s understandable it’ll lead to more worry.

Would it be out of line for me to ask more questions? Is that intruding or should I have some concern?

I’m going to text her. Ask if she’s planning on keeping in touch with him.

She texted me saying her “GF” was there. Am I in the wrong thinking that I might meet someone?

Color me exacerbated.
1 month ago - Tuesday 9/17/19 - 11:05:46 AM EST (GMT-5)
She said they’re keeping in touch.

*shrugs*

Sorry if this was too personal.

/rant
1 month ago - Tuesday 9/17/19 - 11:13:34 AM EST (GMT-5)
It's your journal. You do you.
1 month ago - Sunday 10/6/19 - 1:21:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 10/6/19 - 1:05:53 PM Wolf_Boi wrote:
hi me


Do you like Twilight?
1 month ago - Sunday 10/6/19 - 1:29:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
You have bad taste.
1 month ago - Sunday 10/6/19 - 1:47:01 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think it's normal. Maybe she wanted you to be friends.
1 month ago - Sunday 10/6/19 - 8:42:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Sunday 10/6/19 - 1:29:08 PM Puller wrote:
You have bad taste.


I have bad taste?

What am I supposed to taste like?



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