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12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:18:30 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's been awhile, and while I can't stay here to talk much, I'll give you all an update on my current sitchiation...
1. I divorced Drew.
2. My uncle died.
3. I graduate next semester.
4. I'm moving to Colorado once I graduate.
5. I'm working at a place that I've wanted to work at since I was in high school.
6. I am gonna be going to grad school, but only until after I gain residency for that sweet, sweet, in-state tuition.

So here's the deal. I need your help for a class project I'm doing. Can I get y'all to complete my short survey for me? I'd really appreciate the help and also I'd love to get better data than I would get should I only distribute it via FB.

Anywhoooo... thanks. Survey!

12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:21:13 PM EST (GMT-5)
1. Wait what
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:25:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
1. We split back in December last year and got our divorce finalized in June this year. It came down to us not being able to provide for each others' needs and our values, while they used to be the same, had changed. I also was getting so damn tired of feeling like an awful person for wanting to have sex with people that actually wanted to have sex with me, and being shamed for having those needs.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:26:13 PM EST (GMT-5)
That’s a lot of changes!

I’ll do your survey.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:27:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
1. Also logistically speaking, I was essentially a caretaker, doing the emotional work for two people instead of just one.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:27:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:26:13 PM luckystar107 wrote:
That’s a lot of changes! I’ll do your survey.

Thank you!
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:31:06 PM EST (GMT-5)
Relationships get to be impossible when the 2 people aren't on the same page...and that goes for many things.

Already did the survey!
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:32:57 PM EST (GMT-5)
The thing I don’t like about surveys is it doesn’t tell You why I rarely do those things. I rarely carry change!!
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:33:37 PM EST (GMT-5)
Thanks!

But yeah, I had grown up. He didn't. And it was putting a strain on my relationships with my roommates, too, because he wasn't pulling his weight around the house even though he was there all day every day.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:36:01 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:32:57 PM luckystar107 wrote:
The thing I don’t like about surveys is it doesn’t tell You why I rarely do those things. I rarely carry change!!

I know... I wanted to have qualitative options where you can enter in your own responses and then I'd be able to analyze it all on my own but nnNnoooOoOOooo... I have to keep it simple for this intro level research methods class.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:37:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
That wasn’t a shot at you either, I knew it was probably your class!
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:39:22 PM EST (GMT-5)
I hate that I waited this long to take this course, tbh... I'm so bored with it because I've had so many other research-oriented classes already so this is just honestly wasting my time.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:40:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 11/7/18 - 8:37:31 PM luckystar107 wrote:
That wasn’t a shot at you either, I knew it was probably your class!

No, I know! I appreciate your feedback.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:28:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
There was an answer that I could have chosen more than one option on, the have you or do you know someone who's been homeless piece.

That's a lot of changes, I hope things are going well for you going ahead. I know that first decision isn't one made lightly. I'm glad about your job, though. Hope you enjoy being in the state permanently, it's great here.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:40:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:28:29 PM cpayne wrote:
There was an answer that I could have chosen more than one option on, the have you or do you know someone who's been homeless piece. That's a lot of changes, I hope things are going well for you going ahead. I know that first decision isn't one made lightly. I'm glad about your job, though. Hope you enjoy being in the state permanently, it's great here.

Oh poo I should have noticed that. Thanks for pointing it out.

And yeah, I have high hopes for my future. Once I get out of Illinois I'mma be so happy. I feel drawn to Colorado, too. I'm excited to live there eventually.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:42:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
Good for you getting out of Illa-noise.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:44:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
I had some plans to get out to Colorado but they fell through. Maybe someday. Such a beautiful state.
Worried that everyone in the country is having the same idea and it's going to get crazy expensive. Now is better than later, hope you get out there soon.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:52:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm moving at the end of next summer. I'm really, REALLY hoping I can get to a less expensive area and possibly commute to class and such, but from what I've been reading, all the universities have terrible parking, which, I mean, I'm used to. Hell, I moved closer to campus just so I didn't have to pay for a parking pass.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:53:45 PM EST (GMT-5)
OH YEAH
7. I got contacts.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 9:53:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
It's already crazy expensive in many places, misp, sorry to say.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 10:01:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
cpayne, can I pm you with some questions I have?
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 10:01:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
so much has happened in your life! I’m glad to see you’re doing ok.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 10:03:55 PM EST (GMT-5)
I did the survey. We all know Quant data sucks. Didn't like the political options, the closest option to my beliefs was liberal but I am not a f*cking Liberal. THe whole thing was very very American and I don't think it would work without ascertaining where people live. I don't give money or support but when in the UK I will always buy the big issue sooooooo.... quant sucks.

Also why worry about car parking if you ride a bicycle to your Uni! And think of the killer leg muscles you can develop.
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 10:04:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
I want to move to colorado too!
12 days ago - Wednesday 11/7/18 - 10:04:58 PM EST (GMT-5)
also, survey completed!

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