hey happy 14 year anniversary to me. I`ll add content. don`t kick me when I`m down. so I`m really lonely, which is usually fine, but right now it`s not. it`s... Who's Online | Find Members | Private Messages
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11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:26:11 AM EST (GMT-5)
hey happy 14 year anniversary to me. I'll add content. don't kick me when I'm down.

so I'm really lonely, which is usually fine, but right now it's not. it's worth noting all my top tier friends left Boston. also I'm balls deep in training. I guess I got slapped with reality that some of my friendships probably shifted from "good friends" to "buddies/acquaintances"

I had an incredible day saturday running along the marathon course. but then I was riding the subway home and checked the gram. one of those good friends had a birthday party and it looked like everyone was there except me.

I didn't even get an invite man. was it because she assumed I wouldn't go? would I have gone? is training this hard worth giving up what little social life I had? none of my friends give a sh*t about what I do. that part kinda hurts.

11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:29:31 AM EST (GMT-5)
I went out to vegas recently because my best friend wanted to see magic mike for her birthday. even that was sooo isolating. I woke up on east coast time, went out and did a long run, came back to the hotel, and still had to wait like 3 hours for her to wake up. later that night, this chick takes ME to the CLUB smdh. I probably ruined her good time because I asked to leave at 1:30 so I could pack and make it back to the airport at 4am.

long story short: nobody hangs out with me anymore for probably good reason. I'm kinda feel bad about it but kinda don't and it's very confusing.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:33:24 AM EST (GMT-5)
Lol ur old. Having friends is hard.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:40:01 AM EST (GMT-5)
so is it the transition that sucks? and once I'm old and alone things will feel better? because tbh that sounds fine to me.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:46:18 AM EST (GMT-5)
To me life has gotten a hell of a lot less social with age. When I was younger I was constantly hanging out with friends and crap.

Now, on top of having left home, everyone my age has kids. Plus when I'm not working I just want to relax at home and be left alone.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:46:53 AM EST (GMT-5)
for the 5 yters that aren't my social media friends here are my pics from the trip














11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:48:15 AM EST (GMT-5)
babes
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:49:58 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:46:18 AM CuckingFunt wrote:
To me life has gotten a hell of a lot less social with age. When I was younger I was constantly hanging out with friends and crap. Now, on top of having left home, everyone my age has kids. Plus when I'm not working I just want to relax at home and be left alone.



I'm the townie who never left home lol. but yeah for the most part I've settled in to all that. if something is happening on a school night it's a f*ck no from me. I just thought like I could still have the occasional social outing like a birthday party or whatever. if that's what I gotta sacrifice I guess that's fine.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:50:25 AM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 11:46:53 AM racmoron wrote:
for the 5 yters that aren't my social media friends here are my pics from the trip [image] [image] [image] [image] [image]

Awww!
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 12:18:16 PM EST (GMT-5)
sadly no action shots of my friend giving me a boost to cross out out someone's graffiti but what can ya do

some did stop mid traffic to yell out the window "ARE YOU REALLY FROM BOSTON?!?"
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 12:43:33 PM EST (GMT-5)
You should post those pictures in the hottie thread.

Also not having friends blows. But you learn to enjoy yourself being alone all the time. I isolated myself from most my friends and I only have 2 close friends and my band mates.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:16:00 PM EST (GMT-5)
Adult friendships are vastly different when you get older. People are busy and your lives take different turns, etc. I have a friend since middle school that I don't talk to regularly and she still lives back at home, but we always pick up where we left off when we see/talk to each other. I haven't seen her since 2010, but I'm going to her wedding this summer.

We don't have people that we hang out with regularly, unless you count my in-laws.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:32:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm an only child, so the alone thing is alright with me. there's a little guilt that goes along with isolating myself I think. when that feeling combines with a reminder that people don't really want to hang with me anymore, I guess it just doesn't feel good. hopefully it passes.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:37:43 PM EST (GMT-5)
you look cute in those photos.

people should invite you to stuff. i'd invite you to stuff.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:44:26 PM EST (GMT-5)
Have you looked at meetup.com?

It's not a dating thing. You can find local clubs to join and find cool events like trivia nights, or board game nights.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:46:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
actually my parents are my best friends and we hang out every other week and we share all the same interests. so I'll stfu now lol
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:47:30 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:44:26 PM EhFahQ wrote:
Have you looked at meetup.com? It's not a dating thing. You can find local clubs to join and find cool events like trivia nights, or board game nights.


yes! I actually went to a thing with a yter before, like a board game meet up. there's a lot of running groups on there and I've been interested. I just haven't really worked up the guts to go to one of those things. as much as I run, I get a little nervous joining others
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:49:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
thanks you guys for the compliments on the pics too. my friend is pretty an all........but she got one of those backless bras you see on instagram. the kind that you pull the string in the middle and your boobs just zoom up perfectly. I had my doubts that they didn't work. but as you can see in the pic, not only does it work, but it works damn good
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:57:00 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:37:43 PM shakonomics wrote:
you look cute in those photos. people should invite you to stuff. i'd invite you to stuff.


can you come to the vegan baking group with me? it was super quiet the last time I went and I haven't gone back
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:01:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:44:26 PM EhFahQ wrote:
Have you looked at meetup.com? It's not a dating thing. You can find local clubs to join and find cool events like trivia nights, or board game nights.
On Tuesday 2/13/18 - 1:47:30 PM racmoron wrote:
yes! I actually went to a thing with a yter before, like a board game meet up. there's a lot of running groups on there and I've been interested. I just haven't really worked up the guts to go to one of those things. as much as I run, I get a little nervous joining others


I am kind of afraid to go to one of them too. But I need new friends because my old friends just want to sit around garages and do coke and smoke pot.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:10:29 PM EST (GMT-5)
that's literally all my friends do too. now that I'm really reflecting on it, it totally makes sense why I've isolated myself from them. makes sense for you as well.

what kind of meet up are you looking into?
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:17:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
The board night ones sound cool, but I would get all flustered being around new people and learning a new game.

There are some cool ones where people go on group hikes. They have ones where you can learn a new language, those sound cool.

But I really want to do the D&D ones. I haven't played since high school.

I just haven't grown the balls to actually go to any of them yet.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:28:03 PM EST (GMT-5)
I'm in the same boat. Literally all my top tier have flown in the past year or so, and I struggle to make new friends. Not the being friendly part, but the actual go out and do ish with them part. Trying to figure out how to do ish on my own, but I still want that interaction. The problem is trying to have it on my terms.

If I could just get my brother to move out here, I'd be good, but it's to the point that I'm looking at gigs in different cities and considering just starting fresh.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:28:40 PM EST (GMT-5)
That said, you on your grind is one of those inspirational things and I admire you for staying on your hustle.
11 days ago - Tuesday 2/13/18 - 2:44:15 PM EST (GMT-5)
Everyone is always welcome to hang out with us, there's usually people home to hang with!

(But we're about to be homeless so... lol hahahahaha omg)

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