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10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:27:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
when you are so depressed, when you love someone but they are stagnant. They are all talk, no walk. When they will probably never compromise, or if they do it's short lived.

When you live with someone and you cry everyday thinking about not being there with them
but you have these little resentments
or if you think you deserve the whole shebang with marriage and maybe a child, but they are jaded and already have children.


What do I do. Why is it so painful to stay, but more if I go

10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:29:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think you need to rank the resentments. How important are they? What do they represent?
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:30:01 PM EST (GMT-5)
I seriously drink every day, I've never done that before. I feel guilty every day
I feel not enough for myself, and like a total failure for others


I know yt is full of pity parties. Sorry to join.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:31:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
Rip the bandaid off and leave. The pain won't last forever. It will, however, if you stay.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:08 PM EST (GMT-5)
Leave. Seriously leave, I've just been through this. Eventually the pain of missing them goes away, but if you stay....you will feel this way forever.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
I have two jobs and go to school, yet I also take care of the house.

we talked about it, and he said he'd help me and that's all I had to say
but again, no help. Every time.
he's late on the mortgage
he spends every cent he makes on unnecessary things
he doesn't take care of his health issues, doesn't follow what the doctor's say he needs to do
he's comfortable and lacks ambition in anything
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:30 PM EST (GMT-5)
Jesus christ cuxk that was freaky
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:41 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:30:01 PM NarcoticNico wrote:
I seriously drink every day, I've never done that before. I feel guilty every day I feel not enough for myself, and like a total failure for others I know yt is full of pity parties. Sorry to join.


As long as the drinking every day thing is a temp thing, I wouldn't stress about that. Can you give yourself a target for when to ease off on the sauce?
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:30 PM Brockgurl86 wrote:
Jesus christ cuxk that was freaky

10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:33:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:29:34 PM slinky0 wrote:
I think you need to rank the resentments. How important are they? What do they represent?

but again, I have my faults and he doesn't throw them in my face
he's so nice
he's silly
but I lost attraction, but I feel like that's more my depression
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:34:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:32:08 PM Brockgurl86 wrote:
Leave. Seriously leave, I've just been through this. Eventually the pain of missing them goes away, but if you stay....you will feel this way forever.

On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:31:17 PM CuckingFunt wrote:
Rip the bandaid off and leave. The pain won't last forever. It will, however, if you stay.

I'm always afraid I'm making the wrong decision. Like what if I get over this dark cloud I'm under. Then I've ruined it.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:35:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
I think you already know you should leave with everything you said. Sorry girl. You can do it, you're strong.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:35:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Listen to yourself, man. Listen to the things you're saying. You aren't the dark cloud.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:35:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:29:34 PM slinky0 wrote:
I think you need to rank the resentments. How important are they? What do they represent?
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:33:21 PM NarcoticNico wrote:
but again, I have my faults and he doesn't throw them in my face he's so nice he's silly but I lost attraction, but I feel like that's more my depression

Whatever you do, DON;T indept yourself to how nice he is. That's small potatoes.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:36:02 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:35:02 PM luckystar107 wrote:
I think you already know you should leave with everything you said. Sorry girl. You can do it, you're strong.


Holy poo you guys are quick on the trigger.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:38:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
I feel like I'm going to vomit
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:38:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
why can't I just be happy with someone, seriously, though

everyone else can get it right
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:39:13 PM EST (GMT-5)
I was quite a bit older than you by the time I finally got it right.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:39:21 PM EST (GMT-5)
I don't even know where I could live, I am about to start school after being out for almost 3 years. I'm so overwhelmed.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:40:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:38:42 PM NarcoticNico wrote:
why can't I just be happy with someone, seriously, though everyone else can get it right



I can't!
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:42:07 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:36:02 PM slinky0 wrote:
Holy poo you guys are quick on the trigger.


I think my friends and family who watched me struggle for 7 years would disagree with you, haha
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:42:34 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:38:42 PM NarcoticNico wrote:
why can't I just be happy with someone, seriously, though everyone else can get it right


I guess my suggestion would be to slow down a bit. Why the sense of immediacy? I've had highs and lows with my bf, but you need to keep an eye on the overall trend.
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:42:49 PM EST (GMT-5)
7 years??
man, you were dedicated
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:43:47 PM EST (GMT-5)
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:38:42 PM NarcoticNico wrote:
why can't I just be happy with someone, seriously, though everyone else can get it right
On Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:42:34 PM slinky0 wrote:
I guess my suggestion would be to slow down a bit. Why the sense of immediacy? I've had highs and lows with my bf, but you need to keep an eye on the overall trend.

he's been crying
he's distancing himself already, and we already basically called it quits and then that "we'd keep trying" back and forth just a few days ago
10 days ago - Saturday 8/12/17 - 4:44:25 PM EST (GMT-5)
it just breaks my heart because he asked me why he wasn't enough for me.

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